These Challenging Days
The days are long and for some people, unbearable. Who would have thought the year 2020 would bring a pandemic of this magnitude. It IS hard, but it doesn't have to be unbearable. The characteristic in humans that binds us all together is the crucial need for companionship and social interactions. We were not made to be alone. We all need physical touch and the need to feel wanted and useful.
In the days ahead, try to make phone calls with loved ones. Write letters. Before the pandemic started, I made a vow to myself to write a letter to one family member or friend each week starting the first Sunday of January. I get such enjoyment out of sitting down and putting my feelings down on paper for the family or friend I am writing to.
This can be a time to re-evaluate your life and what is important to you. Some people have lost their jobs. Some will have to find something else quickly in order to pay bills. But others might have time on their side, being able to look at what kind of job they actually want and are passionate about. This can be an exciting time to learn about things that you've always wondered about or questioned. You could take an online class or two. Read that all-American novel that you've always wanted to read. Pick up a hobby. Start gardening or baking. Look on YouTube and find out how to crochet an afghan.
So, stay inside and follow the rules during this difficult time. But stay in contact with people as much as you can through computers, telephones, letters, or yelling across the street. Come out of this pandemic better for having lived through it. We will make it through and I have a feeling that there will be some new habits, hobbies, and ways of life forming after this is all over.
Stay safe.
